1. The fourth word in the third line.
2. It's now offensive that you (a white person) is asking for clarification on something that I (a potential minority) am offended by. You need to do the work. I cannot help you, Penguins shouldn't have to help white educators educate themselves(!)
3. Discussions between people are simply discussions between people - they can either be in good faith or not. I don't know why you'd feel qualified to educate people, it suggests you have aggregated all the knowledge available, decided on the implications of a system you have constructed and are prepared to point it out to anyone, even Penguins (when you can't be sure what their race actually is). This sounds a bit like virtue signalling white saviourism to me. :o)