Are you sure your life partner isn’t a predator taking advantage of your naivety? Are you sure what you think is love isn’t actually manipulation? Is she using her power and knowledge of your family history to build an artificial place for you to park your feelings whilst she helps herself to your youth and body.

Probably not.

Are you an adult? Do you consent? No further questions your honour. Dealt with the Leo issue a few stories ago if you fancy reading the Penguin position on such matters. :o)