Here I think we hit a snag, the rise of violent young men can correlate with a lack of masculine involvement in their childhoods. Taking young boys and over-compensating against their competitiveness, energy and creating the sort of boys their mothers might like often creates ‘nice guys’ - many of whom cannot calibrate themselves well in society and subsequently become incels. That man in his mother’s basement is the apple of her eye after all. We have to be very careful about the law of unintended consequences: just because we think we know how to sort it all out.