I agree. It is better to focus on intention rather than labels. If you find the argument for white supremacy and patriarchy convincing, then everything is racist and sexist. The labels are defunct and the question remains 'what now?' - unfortunately the words are overused by the people who've got the least insight about what that overuse might mean. Sadly, because it's popular, they'll continue to be lauded and applauded. It's a good gravy train to join on social media.

I love the 'new toy' phase. That's exactly what this is. You're right. We'll get there :o)