I did not speak to them about this... mostly because I'm not an out and out asshat even if I seem it. They're human beings fleeing a war and leaving their families behind. They have fathers on the front line and this argument about the equality of this law is a cerebral and theoretical one - not one I would enforce or be tactless enough to raise in conversation with them. As I said in the article, it's a difficult argument to make because I think all four of them are great.... but that could equally be true if it was 2 men and 2 women, or 4 men - and my feelings and argument are not the same thing. :o)