I disagree. I think most men do want equality between the sexes but are somewhat misguided and unaware of what that looks like in practice and get conflicting messages from different branches of the feminist movement. Feminists themselves don't agree and it feeds into complicated issues like trans-women and access to female only spaces. There is no simple solution to what equality looks like.

I am well aware of the appalling stats on rape convictions. That's why I'd argue for improvements to be made to the legal process as soon as possible, ideally in many of the ways I've outlined, so that we can catch rapists and send them to jail, but we can also stop the general public reacting to false allegations. That solution is palatable to women and men. If you want to insist on a solution that is only palatable to women because you don't give a fuck... that's fine, but in the long run it'll be hindering the movement. It isn't begging, it's a recognition of the need for centrist compromise on complicated issues.

And yes.... treating humans fairly is what it's all about. And yes... calling out sexist behaviour is good too. So, here's an example for you. Here's me writing about Amber Heard.

"In this case, I believe many people are overlooking the sheer vulnerability of someone like Amber Heard. I think she can be both dangerous and in great danger at the same time — that’s the nature of personality disorders. I think if people continue to persist in pushing this issue then we will see her psychological disintegration and eventually her suicide. Do not be complicit in either reinforcing a false narrative or bullying because it makes you feel better. Words matter."

(taken from https://medium.com/p/c661852e5ae)

And here's you on Johnny Depp...

"You don't need to watch the trial to know Johny Depp is an evil bastard."

Does one of these sound like sexism to you? And if it does, wouldn't you have a duty to call it out?