I don’t think people will necessarily make the assumption you think they’re going to make - this sounds to me like integration, self-awareness and re-parenting is the goal. There’s no linear path there, there’s no clear guide for exactly how that should look…. So just keep working on it. I do think there is a correlation between mental health issues and NB/Trans but a) correlation is not causation and we must be careful not to infer directionality and b) even if there is a causation relationship like butterflies and tornados, such a relationship has to be filtered through knowledge of an intricate biological machine so complicated it makes the universe itself look like a sticker book.