I have not read the book, but it sounds like a much needed little insight into this sort of issue. I’ve taken off my feminism badge until it steps back from the edges of misandry and does what you’ve so eloquently articulated, this is a problem for both sexes to deal with, compassionately and with full understanding of differences. I felt the author’s frustration but not sure she’s approaching her partner in the right way. It’s a commonly misdiagnosed and misunderstood condition in males, because it looks like snappiness and laziness and not how most people expect it to appear. Therapy all round I would say. :o)