I suspect those 44%-60% of the relationships have the most equal balance of domestic labour. Also, I think we can presume in those cases the people involved are adults and have boundaries and are prepared to set them. If there is an unequal division of labour then this is a matter for discussion (or divorce). I'm prepare to let grown ass adult women and men sort it out in the comfort of their own homes given individual predispositions towards certain tasks. I love ironing, hate putting clothes in the wash. The significant other penguin washes all the clothes and hangs them up (approx time 20 mins). I iron them (approx time 1.5 hours) - both of us think we've got the best deal.

This is all by the by anyway, because that's not really what I was discussing. The studies will change, attitudes will change - but the conclusion drawn by the commenter was this:

"men deserve to be characterized worse than bafoons, they should be portrayed as the negligent users and exploiters they are. Manipulative, bloodsucking vampire would be a more accurate portrayal than bafoon"

There is a difference between an evidence based push towards gender equality and misandry. What you have done is the former, what those comments show is the latter. And until we can differentiate the latter from the former, feminism as a movement will stall. Some people are problem solving and speaking about issues and some people are using rhetoric to simply smash opinions around the internet.