If you haven't found her writing, the Celtic Chameleon writes very eloquently about the perils of forgiveness and why it's not always the most amazing thing in the world despite what every self help guru in the world seems to suggest. I think you two might have political disagreements but I reckon you'll enjoy her outright no-nonsense feminism. Anyhoo, interesting read. Always helps to understand where people are coming from in their lives etc. :o)