I'm late to reply to this - so apologies, and yes, you're right - but to understand the 'oppressor' and the 'oppressed' world - you have to define what is doing the oppressing. In the world of left-wing identarian politics, oppression is designated by skin colour and cultural history.
I think such a position is fundamentally flawed, and prefer to see oppression as existing through economics. Essentially the difference between MLK and Malcolm X. I think MLK was right and I think Malcolm X would've moved that way had he not been murdered.
In short, I don't think all Black people are oppressed by all white people. That's painfully simplistic and doesn't hold to be true outside of an ideology. I think poor people are oppressed by poverty, and when they are oppressed in that way they exhibit behaviours like irrational anger, resource guarding and scapegoating. If you want to solve racism, you have to solve economics.
I go into it a little bit more here. https://medium.com/lucid-nightmare/10-practical-solutions-to-racism-other-than-being-woke-f5bb6d4f228a