I'm sorry to hear that. The loss of a young life is particularly tragic however it happens, but doubly so when it's by their own hand. There are complicated things happening in the young male brain and I think we've got a lot to unpick.
Write about it. Write about them. These are stories that need to be told, mental patterns that need to be unwoven. Men and women are both heading to the extremes, along with Democrats and Republicans, and LGBTQ+ and Hetero people. We're getting more and more divided in little bubbles of false reality.
I don't have the answer yet... but I've got a lot of questions. :o/