I'm with Alan on this one - because the reverse argument isn't true. The argument that a woman couldn't run the country isn't true, it just hasn't been tried and tested yet. I'm sure Dough Emhoff can get his head round putting the damn lights up.
And if anyone kicks off, you call them out. This is the job of the White House Spouse.... male, female, gay, straight whatever. If you're the Presidential adendum you do the job. And what the fuck happens if you have a singleton or divorcee take the Presidency? Nobody does it?
In that eventuality and if it all goes to shit, call me - I'd love to have a go. :o)