Look at you banging out the truths for half the world. I think you’ve hit the nail on the head with this one. Gender questions aside (I am a penguin after all), I think a lot of people are afraid to attempt to integrate any aspect of their shadow. People are hell bent at playing at ‘good’ for the benefit of others. I put that as the root cause of a lot of anxiety and distress in society. I can honestly say I’ve never met a happy activist, and most ardently feminist men and women I know seem deeply miserable when you dig past the rhetoric and ideology. Great article :o)