Lots of people have intuitive thoughts on such matters like age gaps and divorce. It’s much easier for people to think in terms of patterns than it is for people to think about individuals and such generalisations are often unhelpful. It sounds like you’ve found an excellent man – and you’re very happy. It doesn’t matter what journey you had to get there, or how many times each of you has been round the sun – what matters is the here and now… and it sounds like you’ve nailed it :o)