My friends got together when she was 20 and he was 42. That’s out of the formula range. She’s now 40 and he’s 62 and that’s within the formula, not much has changed, they’re just as happy as they’ve always been. Perfectly matched. They were back then, they are still now.

Two questions. Are you both adults? Do you consent? That’s it. That’s the full length of the Penguin investigation - everything else is just engaging in subjective opinions in what other people do or what society believes life priorities and emotional development should be according to some arbitrary standards. I don’t care if you’re 18 and 105. You do you. Once my two basic requirements are met, I’m out. No further questions. No further observations. That’s it. The end. :o)