Nah, you're more than capable of good faith argument. You're just more quickly triggered into profanity at an earlier juncture than I am. Or I at least hide it better behind a British facade.... the spicy was a reference to how quickly it got offensive and personal before cooling off into a moderate and more mellow discussion.
You can't do overtime on Urchling day, tell them no. And if they ask why, just tell them a little birdy told you it was fine to go home at the right time. I'm the little bird in question and I believe in work-life balance. Especially on Urchling day. You have a heartfelt AI generated poem to read her.