nil desperandum carborundum and all that jazz. There will always be people who disagree - but on a writing site like this one, their disagreements are there to stand as testimony to their world view.
I'm pretty sure we'll move past the silliness of activists in the fullness of time - and there are some excellent moderate trans writers on this platform. Sadly they seem to be drowned out by the cacophony of twats.
I had a fairly spectacular run in with an activist type a few months back. It really cemented in my brain the counter intutive work done by the vociferously intolerant.
https://medium.com/lucid-nightmare/whack-a-woke-james-finn-special-86d6cb79aa11