No. My position is it’s men’s mental health month and an opportunity for others people reading this story to spot how depression manifests differently in both sexes. That doesn’t mean her health isn’t important, it means…. ‘Hey, consider that your boyfriend isn’t just a lazy fuck and there might be more going on here’.

As I’ve said, she’s probably better off out of the relationship - but the mental health struggles of an individual shouldn’t be used as a tool for public humiliation nor as an excuse to kick men as a collective. I can empathise with her because I’ve been her - getting out is hard, but it’s more than possible to maintain an empathetic position.