Not my definition, it’s the dictionary definition. Check it out. People who don’t listen or engage with the POV of others are bigoted. With LGBTQ+ debates there are plenty of bigots on both sides – though you’ll usually see it aimed at people who don’t agree with progressive ideologies. The irony of making such statements can be pretty staggering when you spot them – I prefer your approach. Adults can and should be able to hold reasonable debate about all issues without resorting to name calling. :o)