So let me get this straight. If I agree with you… my view is valid and we play into your existing belief system. If I disagree with you and I’m nasty, I’m a troll. If I disagree with you but I’m polite– I’m a sea lion?

Doesn’t give me a lot of options does it? We could almost say that I’m out of options on this one – your view must be accepted without question. Can you see why this is problematic? Not just for your view of the world but society in general?