So let me get this straight. Your position is... we don't need to have heroes and villains, because binary thinking is bad.... but also, Meghan is clearly the heroine here because of her skin colour and genital configuration.
There's an alternative here - one that takes into account the fact that the monarchy is a racist shit show AND explains why a couple pleading to be left alone would give a well-paid tell-all televised interview.
They're all awful. No side needs to be picked. https://medium.com/lucid-nightmare/oh-you-only-just-noticed-that-monarchy-was-racist-29d7b532b6bd