That's because (broadly speaking) idiots of all genitals and flavours will show up en masse when they feel they are being attacked. This isn't you attacking them overtly, but the question isn't asked in good faith either. Why? Because the answer is obvious and men know exactly what they're supposed to say. You're putting down a loaded question and then citing the acting out behaviour of some men as indicative of men in general. That's the femagoguery aspect. I don't have a problem with it - I just wish it wasn't so heavily successful on social media. It's become a new way to hijack the algorithm and does little to keep genital based accords or move towards the goals of feminism. I wrote about the difference last year. https://medium.com/p/342419b743a