The goal of creating equity between the sexes is a good one. That's why I believe in gender equality. Your version of feminism, which borders on misandry, by screaming 'these are my feelings and you can't question them!' is a shit strategy - unless you can work with men, you can't create equity you just blame each other for conflict.

You carry on with your life thinking everything is mens fault, men carry on thinking everything is women's fault. Feminism becomes a woman's movement and not a push towards equity under the law and men don't engage. That's the shit strategy, it doesn't make women any safer and fails to make any headway other than in an echo chamber.

When you're functionally disagreeing with someone - as you are now, then you are at least engaging in a process of doubt. I think you feel passionately, i think many women do - I think many men do, I think we should be talking about the best mechanisms for discussion. The 'bear in the woods' thought experiment was not a good mechanism - and as I said in my piece, should you point this out - you get labelled as 'part of the problem'.