These are all valid points - and a byproduct of a society that has normalised the sex imbalance on romantic approach. There's nothing wrong with women who do any of the things you have said - but it'll take a while for society to adjust to that mindset.

I attended two single sex grammar schools. One for GCSE and another for sixth form. As a result I get invited to both stag and hen nights with different friends . I can assure you the absolute filth that comes out of the mouths of both sexes is appalling - once you have been 'included' within the group, hop into their blindspot and run in gender-stealth mode you get to see behind the curtain. Men are definitely worse - but it isn't a one-sided affair by any means.

Society is changing. Slowly. But it's going to be a very slow process.