This was an interesting meta-analysis that you'd probably appreciate. Here's the conclusion:

Returning to the opening question of this article, my findings suggest that the prevailing view of women bearing a higher burden of divorce is supported when looking at medium-term consequences for a large set of outcome measures, including those on which men were previously found to be disadvantaged. Taking economic, housing and domestic, health and well-being, and social outcomes into account, men were more vulnerable to short-term effects on subjective measures of well-being, but women experienced medium-term disadvantages in objective economic status. In other words, men’s disproportionate psychological strain was transient, whereas women’s disproportionate economic strain was chronic.

It's here if you want to read the whole thing. Though it is worth noting it is not a US based study so things may be different. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5992251/