You don't have to accept my help or advice... I've only done 5 years here after all. And I'm not a linguistic scholar of some decades - I'm a playwright and screenwriter.
What you have to say in articles is far more interesting than the tone you've taken in comments. For someone who thinks the world would be better off if we accepted group responsibility, you've got a real bee in your bonnet about cis-het males and patriarchy. I suspect Medium will very soon offer you exactly the sort of thing you need to confirm your existing world view.
And yeah, everyone beginning on the platform needs help. We were all new once. Your words are absolutely fine to digest. You've some interesting things to say. You're just not giving them a chance to be found because you haven't covered the fundamentals and your overall tone is shitty - dismiss my advice as patriarchal condescension if you want, that's your choice. The advice remains regardless and you can pay Zulie Rayne $100 in an online workshop to tell you the same thing if you'd prefer.
There you are. feminism empowerment! :o)